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Please Read: Stalkers and your Animals and your Family

 
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thelmanelle
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 05, 2010 7:08 pm    Post subject: Please Read: Stalkers and your Animals and your Family Reply with quote

So today, I am a hubby's office and his new partner peeks his head in and wants to talk to me.  I thinking, he wants to bring the kids to the farm since we brought the Belgians to the office for Halloween.

He would like that, but this is different.  He is concerned about something.  His son has made friends with a child on the block...call him Joe...the relationship is okay for a while.  Then, it becomes weird and the son no longer wants to be friends with Joe.  Joe is weird.  Scary.  Joe's momma is scary, too.

In fact, she threatens and shoots birds at the kids and drive by with her vehicle and points to the parents eyes and demonstrates gouging of the eyes out.

They are not the first family to have this experience with this family.  One family left the neighbor.  Their pets were dying, a donkey shot and killed, buried , unburied, etc.  Lights on and off in the dark. Water in the gas tanks, etc.  Threats, phone calls.  The finally did get a restraining order.  but, they were scared.

They moved out of their house to live in a trailer to get away from these people.  

So now, the new family has been chosen...my hubby's partner.  I found out from my other horse buddies that whatever the original victims said you can take it to the bank!  

He is putting up security cameras,etc.  I told him that his neighbors were very nice.  He and his family should meet them and discuss the situation as they will remember the prior situation.

Next, I am to meet with the wife and go to lunch and take her to a indoor range to help teach her in a non-threatening way how to protect herself, family and pets when he is gone to emergency calls and continuing education courses.

So this has been an interesting day, because no one told me about this situation and here I am a volunteer for SHI...she lives close and they think she killed her own horse, as well as this donkey.  Plus, she abuses her kid.

This is crazy that it has been ignored.  With his security cameras...which are going up today as I type this....maybe we can help stop this evil person.

Thanks. and sorry about the negativity of this...but, it is part of SHI.
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 5:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Holy heck, I would be scared to death!
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 12:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have had to email so many local friends about this situation today.  But, you know, they are very interested and I might just get some activity with this lady away from this innocent family.  
She might get visited after all the emails... hopefully!
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 5:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I hope she gets locked away! She sounds unstable!
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 6:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

We hope for the same thing.  Her son will probably be in her foot steps if someone does not catch him quick.
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 08, 2010 2:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh, poor kid.... let alone the people around this family. But the kid can never escape being there 24/7.

It is sad the damage a parent can do...
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 08, 2010 3:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some Paso friends in the Midwest lived next to such a family.  One of the sons ran over and killed their dog speeding past their house.  They saw it and turned him in to the police.  After that the family went psycho on them.  Three of their horses were shot over the course of a year.  They finally moved too...away from a farm that had been in the family for generations.   It wasn't worth the fear.

There are many psychotic people in this world.  It's best to RUN at the first hint of it.  You might win the battle but loose the war.  

Too bad there isn't ONE neighborhood to send all the rotten neighbors to.  They could have each other.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 1:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If she abuses her kids, turn her in to CPS immediately. You may be the only ONE who makes the call and saves a life.

There are laws and she is a criminal, there are cages for wild animals like her. Protect the babies ......... anonymous calls can trigger an investigation.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 12, 2010 12:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree. I have started a email alert in my group locally.  I have gotten a lot of response back.  I will be calling the partner to see how things are.  The lady does not know me.  I will get a name from him and do just as you suggest.
 

Thank you!
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