MagicMandi
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Pedestal*Pony needs helpOkay guys so hi, i board my horse at Jodi's (Pedestal*Pony's) place and as some of you may know we recently lost one of the horses (RIP Patchy). Jodi is in some major debt because of the debt bills and she's struggling and stressing to pay her truck payment and get hay and such. i'm only 14 so i can't help much but i was thinking maybe if i could get some donations or something we could put together a nice early christmas gift and help her out  just sent me a message if you'd like to contribute? thank you all
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Clarissa
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Do we have a paypal contact for her?
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whisperingwindfarms
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Ditto - send me an address and I'm in.
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Pedestal*Pony
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This is not easy for me. I am so embaressed. Life has been so hard for me this fall. My paypall address is: Jettaby3@aol.com
I would much rather give then be the one receiving. I just pray that I can get things in order. 
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whisperingwindfarms
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I don't know and have never met any human who did not need help of some kind at one point in life or another. I was very fortunate when I had to put Moochie down that my parents were in a position to pay the vet bills so I did not have that on me on top of my grief.
We are each part of a vast whole. We can each do something to help. That's how I got Daisy back in May. Having her with me means much more than not having to feed her means to her owners. So what I know about helping out when people ask (in whatever form it takes) is it always, always, always benefits me so much more than it ever benefits anyone else.
Jodi - We care for you. If you can't count on your friends, who can you count on? You're not that far away from me. You let me know if there's anything I can do.
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bit
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K Jodi, it's on the way. We seem to do something every Christmas for someone, might as be well of our own. It could be you next year, so be generous. Even a little helps a lot. Not just monetarily, but it fills the soul with hope. Hope and love, and that's what Christmas is all about.
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Pedestal*Pony
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Thank you all so very much. This will help get my account back towards the positive. This really sucks. I hate being in this position.
I hauled one of my sisters horses last sunday to her new prospective home and it was approx 120 miles total and she wouldnt give me a penny towards fuel. I even asked. She is a very selfish person.
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bit
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um, no more favors for sis? I liked your post on fb. Sometimes it's a gift to yourself to quite giving to people who expect it. Very empowering. I just sold everything I wasn't using on ebay. It payed for a lot of hope.
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whisperingwindfarms
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I agree with Deb. Lately I've been learning that the only thing I can do is show up and be who I am. Everyone else will just have to deal with it.
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Pedestal*Pony
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Yep, no more favors for sis! She needs a small lot fenced in that a neighbor guy is letting her borrow for her horses (she will eventually get kicked off that) and I am NOT going to go help her!
My other sister just called me and asked if I could come up and look at one of her horses because he is very lame in his back left leg. I told her I will come up after work tomorrow. When they ask, I jump but that is the way I am. I will learn to say no tho.
My sister and I are still not talking because of the fuel thing. It will work out but I am not going to help her out any more because she so uses me. Unless she pays me for fuel and all.
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whisperingwindfarms
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I swear we all have the same challenges. My bros and I are on the outs. When I really thought about it last night though, we've never been close. So I'm going to spend some time this week setting my intentions for me and my family.
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bit
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I got tired of trying for Tony's families approval. They still see me as the flavor of the month. They hate each other too. Ugly people. Family isn't always by blood. I think Richard Bach said something like that. WE are family. Can you imagine the Christmas dinner we would have?
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